You may be interested in knowing how to date multiple guys, but you don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. Good news-just follow these tips.

Learning how to date multiple guys without being shady isn’t as hard as it sounds. Haven’t you seen Sex in the City? Samantha is all about no-strings-attached dates with multiple men.

I was the same when it came to dating. Okay, not the same, but I wasn’t committing myself to anyone.

Sometimes I would be dating a couple of different guys at once. I was feeling them out and seeing which one I connected well with.

Now, many men are scared of serial daters, and, of course, there are women who take it to an extreme. But you don’t need to be extreme when dating multiple guys. You can do it and find someone you connect with. [Read: Why dating multiple people is actually really healthy]

How to date multiple guys without being shady

Many people assume you need to lock yourself down to the person you’re casually dating. But that’s not true. It’s called casual dating for a reason. It’s casual. You’re not committing to yourself.

Of course, if you’ve seen this person for months while also dating others, well, then you have a problem. But there is a way you can date multiple people without being considered a cheater, liar, or commitment-phobe. And I’m about to tell you how to do it. It can be done!

1. It begins with honesty

Sure, it may be awkward to tell someone that they’re not the only person you’re seeing, but at least they’re given the choice on whether or not they approve of that.

Dating multiple guys at once isn’t about hiding one from another. (suite…)