So after she found me on Facebook and Instagram, and was convinced I was a decent fellow and not a psycho (very important, guys!) we went on a “linner” date to Olive Garden.

Erica told me she’s just not the casual affair type of girl. At first, I thought that meant the date was over – take my breadsticks and piss off.

And I was surprised to learn that I was still interested in her, and getting to know her, even though I wasn’t planning on starting a real relationship.

But feelings change. I found myself actually questioning if I wanted this to go somewhere. Like I said, keep things open-minded.

I still talk to Erica and we take things slow going on a few dates a year, because we do have very busy lives.

Bumble Match #2 – Joan

Joan didn’t say much at first but used some funny emojis. I wanted to swipe left when I first saw her profile…but on a whim I swiped right instead.

As soon as I sent her a few messages she jarred me with a request: “My friends and I are going to The Right Place” (a local bar). (suite…)